First Date: The Worst, Because the slightest mistake can be fatal to you and because a first date requires preparation, here is a small inventory of what to do… and above all not to do.
THE LOOK, FIRST IMPRESSION
The worst: ladies, plunging neckline, outrageous makeup and protruding thongs (first it’s not classy, then he might think you’re an “easy girl”). The range of false eyelashes, false nails, false padding, etc.). Gentlemen, unkempt quickdraw, old jogging and greasy hair. And of course… the white socks.
The best: a sober, but chic outfit, which suggests DilMil without revealing (little black dress and stiletto heels for you, ladies. Black jeans and shirt for you, gentlemen). An outfit that says “I made an effort” without overdoing it.
HYGIENE, WHEN IN DOUBT ABSTAIN YOURSELF – FIRST DATE: THE WROST
The worst: bad breath, herpes (it’s not your fault, but if it happens, say you’re sick and reschedule the appointment!), the bottle of perfume poured on you.
The best: a good shower just before the appointment, a good deodorant, fresh and pleasant breath, a little perfume. Nothing extraordinary, huh…
THE PLACE, THE UNDERSIDE OF THE PLACE
The worst: invite her to your house (she could misinterpret it), to Mac’do or KFC, to the restaurant where you went with your ex. We avoid too spicy cuisine, Japanese and other world cuisine (unless you know his culinary tastes).
The best: a traditional restaurant that serves varied food, chic, but not too much, friendly. A place you’ve tried before , but where no one is going to crack a sleazy joke on you about the “hot” girl you were with the other day.
THE MENU, FEET IN THE DISH – FIRST DATE: THE WROST
The worst: playing it grand seigneur by drawing a “ take what you want, I’m the one who pays ”, ordering onion soup or garlic snails (even if you love it). Think a little DilMil.Co about her (him) who will spend the evening breathing your breath. Especially if you want to kiss her later… Also forget the spaghetti with tomato sauce (it makes stains) and the giant hamburgers…
The best: opt for a basic and easy-to-eat dish, forget the salad which risks getting stuck between your teeth. Choose fish over dishes with sauce. And above all, stay well!
THE ADDITION, NOT EVEN MALE
The worst: disappearing at the time of the bill, offering to pay 50/50 or playing the gentleman by saying “I’m the one inviting, I just got my pay”… Prohibitive.
The best: pretend a phone call or a pressing desire (we’ll say I’m going to wash my hands) and go pay the bill at dessert time. Height of chic.
THE DISCUSSION, IT SAY LOTS – FIRST DATE: THE WROST
The worst: only talking about yourself, not listening to the other , not letting him (her) place one, lamenting all evening, talking to him about his problems, his anxieties, his complexes, about life who is a bitch and love you don’t believe in… Laughing for nothing, playing a role, talking about your exes.
The best: take an interest in others, ask them questions, be curious and above all be funny. Humor is the key to a successful first date. We forget our worries and we stay positive: tonight, life is beautiful.
GESTURES, DO I TOUCH OR AM I TOUCHING?
The worst: wandering hands under the table while she talks to you about her work, elbows on the table, hand in her mouth.
The best: constant attention, you fill her glass when it’s empty, you offer her a dessert even if you don’t want it, you barely dare to touch her hand when she says she’s happy to be there.
THE END OF THE EVENING, IT DOES OR IT BREAK – FIRST DATE: THE WROST
The worst: “well, come on, let’s go to my house, I can’t wait to show you my bed” or “Sorry, but I don’t like you at all, we’ll stop there”…
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The best: “I’ll take you home”, and why not a stolen kiss before telling her how much you can’t wait to see her again… You don’t like her (he) ? Thank you and goodbye” are enough to let it be understood that there will be no second meeting. While remaining courteous…